I know I have a lot of guy friends but it IS very difficult to keep that friendship. From personal experience I have had friends who think it would be a great idea to go out with me just because we get along well but that is not how it works guys. Back when I was in high school I thought that going out with a guy who was one of my best friends was a phenomenal idea and it was for a couple of months. Little by little we stopped being best friends and as time went by we stopped talking to each other. We went out for two years but after those two years we became complete strangers to one another but others believed we were happy. At the time I was afraid of braking up because I knew it would be the end of our friendship but once I thought about it I figured out we were not really friends anymore. Don't take me wrong, this might work for some people but just getting along with each other is not enough to maintain a relationship. Broettes are easy to get along because we understand guys to a certain level and we do not cause as much drama. Having many guy friends is also not easy due to THEIR guy friends. Once they see that you are a girl that feels comfortable being surrounded with guys they think they have found a gold mine. On occasions there is some unwanted attention, other times I am seen as a new bff, but most of the time I become a psychologist or counselor and that is not fun. Yes, I am a girl and I understand the female brain but all girls are different, kind of, and there is no point on me resolving their problems. On a personal note, one of the things I do not like about being a broette is that my friends say a lot of bad-words in front of me. Those kind of bad-words guys are not supposed to say ind front of a lady which also make me worry on how they think of me. Broettes have some hardships for being who they are but it is not something we can't manage.
