Sunday, April 10, 2016

The Struggle is Real

My friends mean the world to me and I cherish a lot the few girl friends I have. I have never been able to befriend a girlfriend of any of my friends because they just do not like me and why is it that hey do not like me? Well, it is because my friends are always talking about me. Guys, that is the biggest mistake you can ever make in your life! Girls do not like it when you talk to them about other girls specially when you just started dating. I used to hang out a lot with my guy friends and play video games, watch movies, go to Starbucks or MoonBeans (because I love coffee) and chat about anything. As time went by, each one of my friends started dating and eventually they stopped talking to me, guess why? Yes, because of their girlfriends. I am happy for each of them but I have to admit it was hard for me at first because I  became lonelier by the second and I stopped doing all the things I usually did with them, it was a big change. I still had friends and everything but it just was not the same.
Some of you girls out there might have experienced this as well and guys are probably thinking of some broettes they have lost due to their girlfriends. But there is nothing to worry about. True friends are forever this is what I tell all my friends because I know that even if we stop talking for a while everything will be good between us. One more thing, guys if you want your broettes and girlfriends to get along let them meet first and see how they get along and if one of your best friends is a broette ALWAYS tell this to the people you date so that they do not get surprised after. Please be casual about it and do not blurt it out of no where because that will only make things worst.

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